Showing posts with label life coach. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life coach. Show all posts

Monday, August 27, 2018

Picking Your Path



Lost
Confused
Upset
Stressed
Overworked
Underpaid
No Joy
Unhappy
Stuck
Just Blah!


These are words that so many of my clients have used in the past to describe their lives.
The jobs they were doing, not due to following their passions but due to the pure fact that they have bills to pay. The unhappiness of the lives they were living each day. Feeling as if they had no other option than to do what they were doing every day.  Children who need clothes, food, a roof over their heads, a way to get to school etc.

They were unhappy with their lives, unhappy with their jobs and from that point they were taking it out on their husbands, kids, friends, and family.

Because  ....

" Dreams are for kids "
" Not everyone gets their dream job "
" There are no jobs out there "
" only the rich can afford to go after their dream jobs "
" Success is not meant for everyone "
" its okay to work a job you hate as long as your bills are paid "
" I don't feel safe where I live but it is all we can afford. "
" We don't control what happens to us or what jobs we can or can not get. "
" No one gives you a chance anymore, you have to have the experience to get the experience in job fields these days. "

Why do you sit there stressing over things you don't like, don't want and things that you can control?

Because when you were a child someone .... somewhere .... told you that you that you couldn't reach your goals...

That real life doesn't work how you think it does.
That you have to have a " real " job to pay your bills.

But why?

Why are you sitting there being unhappy when you could be living the life your dreams are made of?

You pick your own path in life, your path does not pick you. You have the control and ability to reach all your dreams. The first step is to change how you think of your dreams. All you have to do is believe in your self anf know that your dreams will come true.

You don't have to live in a world of doubt, fears and other people expectations. You control your own life and no one can stop you once you know what you want.

The only question is ..... what path will you pick?








Monday, January 23, 2017

Changes coming in 2017!


For years I have been trying to decide what I wanted to do with my life.

I knew all the basics of what I wanted and what I needed with the life style that my family and I live. It has been a lot of hard work many nights of researching and praying about what was right for us. This is something that is not only about me and my life and my needs.

My family is the most important art of my life and I know that with my career I need to be able to fully support us. In case something were to ever happen where my husband were to be unable to work. I want to be able to live the life free of fear and that could take me where I want to go in life. I am a mother, a wife and friend. I want to be able to help other people better their lives every chance I get. There is no better career for me than one where I am helping other people reach their dreams.

How I could reach my dreams well how everyone reaches their dreams in this world. I need to start where ever dreamer starts and that is by writing my list of what I will be doing this year.

2017 if my year and big changes are coming to mine and my families lives.

So here we go .... Here is my Game plan!
 
1. I will to change the lives of at least 1 person a week and anyone else who comes my way.
2. I will  make an income that will replace the one I would have working out side of the home.
3. I will work at getting my body to a point where I am happy with it.
4. I will work each day to be a better mom and wife than I was the day before.
5. We will take a family vacation where I fully pay for everything, using income from my business.

These are my 5 top goals and this is what I will do this year. It is not my full list I am sure that as the months go by I will add and changing things. I will grow an a business owner and I know that when I pick a business to enter. That will be the largest thing I can do to put these things into action.

One step at a time.... and this is step one!