Monday, August 27, 2018

Picking Your Path



Lost
Confused
Upset
Stressed
Overworked
Underpaid
No Joy
Unhappy
Stuck
Just Blah!


These are words that so many of my clients have used in the past to describe their lives.
The jobs they were doing, not due to following their passions but due to the pure fact that they have bills to pay. The unhappiness of the lives they were living each day. Feeling as if they had no other option than to do what they were doing every day.  Children who need clothes, food, a roof over their heads, a way to get to school etc.

They were unhappy with their lives, unhappy with their jobs and from that point they were taking it out on their husbands, kids, friends, and family.

Because  ....

" Dreams are for kids "
" Not everyone gets their dream job "
" There are no jobs out there "
" only the rich can afford to go after their dream jobs "
" Success is not meant for everyone "
" its okay to work a job you hate as long as your bills are paid "
" I don't feel safe where I live but it is all we can afford. "
" We don't control what happens to us or what jobs we can or can not get. "
" No one gives you a chance anymore, you have to have the experience to get the experience in job fields these days. "

Why do you sit there stressing over things you don't like, don't want and things that you can control?

Because when you were a child someone .... somewhere .... told you that you that you couldn't reach your goals...

That real life doesn't work how you think it does.
That you have to have a " real " job to pay your bills.

But why?

Why are you sitting there being unhappy when you could be living the life your dreams are made of?

You pick your own path in life, your path does not pick you. You have the control and ability to reach all your dreams. The first step is to change how you think of your dreams. All you have to do is believe in your self anf know that your dreams will come true.

You don't have to live in a world of doubt, fears and other people expectations. You control your own life and no one can stop you once you know what you want.

The only question is ..... what path will you pick?








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